Strawberrypie
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The last part is kind of messed up and damages men and society. Men can show their weakness. They're human just like women. I'm from a part of America where no one is expected to show weakness or sadness and when I moved to another region where people expressed their feelings, it was a culture shock. Attitudes like that start in childhood with parents telling their sons not to cry or abusing them for showing feelings.I was watching this fancam and I noticed S@n from @t33z looking like he was about to collapse. It was so sad to watch. No one stopped the performance to see if he was okay. So sad.
it was multiple performances. Also, some of the newer videos, they cropped out those moments so we wouldn’t notice.
I've seen women encourage this in men, telling them not to get too close to other men or they're gay. Don't cry, that's gay or makes them less of a man. Encouraging that doesn't work. Those same guys are expected to be loving, know how to react to women's feelings, and be gentle with their families. How can they show something they've never received? It's not a good stereotype for anyone.