What you say is exactly why it is so important to keep close to God for spiritual strength and wisdom. Personally I go to and fro, even from one extreme to the other at times. I never seem to do things by halves! Discernment without love, and love without discernment are both dangerous.The body of Christ really has to be careful in regards to judging. Paul said that the church only has the right to judge those within while God is the judge of those without. We are called to expose evil on the basis of declaring what is right(and wrong) according to Gods word, but this is not the same as judging peoples character. Its not our place to make judgments against someone based off of their character. Its also not our place to judge whats in the heart of someone else or their motives, especially other saints. If someone is in Christ that means a brother has the right to judge their actions, but they should never attempt to presume or judge their motives and whats in their brothers heart. The Bible speaks about "evil suspicions." Only God can judge a man based off of whats in their heart. In fact its futile to even attempt to presume or judge whats in the heart of another Christian, because the same heart that can only be sanctified by the word of God and prayer is in them . The same heart that is still very much prone to patterns of the old man( if not subdued by prayer) is at work within them. The truth is that the only good and righteousness any of us have is Christ. There is absolutely nothing good within us apart from him and if you go a day or two without prayer that old self and his bad attitude will remind you of that. You cant judge another brother for struggling with pride thinking yourself more spiritual when there is bitterness or self righteousness in your heart.
If I go a day or two without prayer my attitude is always bad. Its a reminder that Christ and Christ alone has the power to sanctify and clean the heart(through the power of the holy spirit and prayer). You can only ever be motivated by the flesh apart from prayer and seeking God for spiritual provision. If you can only ever be motivated by the flesh apart from prayer then why act as if good intentions or motivations come from you and not God working in you? This is why we need to pray for God to create within us a clean heart, and renew within us a right spirit often. Its very easy fot pride or unfortiveness or bitterness to slip in! The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately evil, who can know it?
I experienced that with one of my sons visiting me over Christmas. I got eye rolls and face pulling when I said I wouldn't watch the horror movies my husband and him were watching. I cannot in good conscience watch such spiritually ugly and frankly evil things.The soul will not always feel gladness and joy living under The Lordship of Christ. The Bible says that The Lord has set apart The Godly for himself. We go through disciplines that are completely unnoticed and alien to the peoples all around us. We are the clay and he is the potter and in our life it has been decreed that his counsel will stand. We go through fires that purge us of the bad seed and of the rotten root so that we may share in his holiness. God allows the children of the world to carry on in their delusions and destructions, but he sets aside and reproves the ones he loves. He opens and closes doors and nobody can stay his hand and ask him what he has done. Job understood this perfectly when he had said "he walls up my way so I cannot pass" as he laid in bed helpless desperate for his affliction to end.
Jonah thought that he would go off and do his own thing and God had sent a storm and swallowed him up by a fish to have him consider his ways. He visited Jonah and once he acknowledged his error and repented God told him to go to Ninevah and proclaim judgment that the people would turn from their wicked ways and be spared. We think this is unfair yet what mother or father doesnt have the final say in the lives of their children? What undeveloped and adolescent mind truly understands all that is entailed in their parents decision making? God is sovereign and oversees all the lives of his beloved and disciplines them in his ways and according to his perfect purposes.
For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life, Proverbs 6:23
Yeah, there is a passage in scripture where it says that they think it's strange that you don't join with them when they give themselves over to their carnal passions. It is very lonely. I think of how everyone paid homage to the idols in Babylon except three people(book of Daniel). Everyone was screaming for their heads... Jesus said we will be hated by all nations for his sake. It is something we really need to prepare ourselves for. We are called to sow seeds, but often it can feel like casting pearls before swine.I experienced that with one of my sons visiting me over Christmas. I got eye rolls and face pulling when I said I wouldn't watch the horror movies my husband and him were watching. I cannot in good conscience watch such spiritually ugly and frankly evil things.
It gets very lonely if I forget to remember that God is always there for me.
It's The Father's good pleasure to give us the kingdom. Blessed are those who thirst and hunger for righteousness, for they will be satisfied.I started New Year with the resolution to read a chapter from Proverbs every day again.
Although I am quite familiar with the subjects throughout the book, each time I read it I notice something different.
Today in Chapter 2:
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... gives sound wisdom for the RIGHTEOUS... for those who WALK UPRIGHTLY. Am I doing that?
If we wish to be truly wise [not just intelligent or highly educated!] we need to be righteous in God's eyes. That will only happen as a result of believing in Jesus and following Him, repenting of our sins and returning to God when we need to do that.
My prayer is that this year Christians readers here -as well as me - do I what I typed above.