Its a bit funny, though.I was saying this since back during the summer. Anytime you disagree with her, him, herm, shim, whatever the fuck is a gender in 2021.
Thing is the poster gets hostile. Really hostile. And contradictory
Its a bit funny, though.I was saying this since back during the summer. Anytime you disagree with her, him, herm, shim, whatever the fuck is a gender in 2021.
Thing is the poster gets hostile. Really hostile. And contradictory
It can be comedic somedays. Ok, quite comedic lolIts a bit funny, though.
"The only thing you and I have in common is we're both worried about what I'm doing" — @crissleI was saying this since back during the summer. Anytime you disagree with her, him, herm, shim, whatever the fuck is a gender in 2021.
Thing is the poster gets hostile. Really hostile. And contradictory
Blaming women, huh?So your assuming every woman on earth is a gold digger.
@morita - this is why I called out your nonsense bullshit.
you asked why wealthy high quality women would “slum it” - I told you. Wealthy men are assholes. They don’t treat people well, especially women. But you will even blame that on the women too. Is there anything you won’t blame a woman for?
You're literally saying that the reason men don't respect you is because some women out there don't present themselves in a way that YOU personally don't deem respectable enough.Sorry, not sorry. I don’t understand women who make caricatures of themselves and in turn give all women a bad name - which gives ammo to the men who are inclined to hate us and treat us poorly (both on micro and macro levels) anyway.
Micro and macro meaning personally and policy wise if that wasn’t clear.
But you hate all men. You said so.Blaming women, huh?
You're literally saying that the reason men don't respect you is because some women out there don't present themselves in a way that YOU personally don't deem respectable enough.
Do you realize that's how r*pe culture works??? That if a woman is not dressing in a way that people deem "respectable" enough, not behaving in a way that is respectable enough, then she deserves whatever violence or abuse that come her way.
You're not challenging the system, you're just palying by men's rules because that's more convenient than going against the statues quo.
I disagree that those materialistic factors don't count. I'm not ugly so why should I go for an ugly man? And if a man doesn't have any money it could be a reflection of poor work ethic or low ambition. Being self-sufficient and financially independant isn't the same as being rich.
No. What I’m saying is that women that act horribly give all women a bad name. I never weighed in on whether that was right or not. I certainly do not want to be judged as a woman by the way YOU behave. But that’s what will happen. Just like hateful horrible men give ALL men a bad name. Difference is structurally those men have more power so even “good men” contribute. I thought you were in college? Isn’t reading comprehension and the ability to deduce nuance prerequisites for a college level education?Blaming women, huh?
You're literally saying that the reason men don't respect you is because some women out there don't present themselves in a way that YOU personally don't deem respectable enough.
Do you realize that's how r*pe culture works??? That if a woman is not dressing in a way that people deem "respectable" enough, not behaving in a way that is respectable enough, then she deserves whatever violence or abuse that come her way.
You're not challenging the system, you're just palying by men's rules because that's more convenient than going against the statues quo.
And I say this is bullshit.No. What I’m saying is that women that act horribly give all women a bad name. I never weighed in on whether that was right or not. I certainly do not want to be judged as a woman by the way YOU behave. But that’s what will happen. Just like hateful horrible men give ALL men a bad name. Difference is structurally those men have more power so even “good men” contribute.
Again, lame. Me being in college (even if I was that's none of your business) has absolutely nothing to do with this topic.I thought you were in college? Isn’t reading comprehension and the ability to deduce nuance prerequisites for a college level education?
Learn how to read.furthermore your original statements were “I wouldn’t date a broke man” and “I won’t date an ugly man”- there was no nuance or further explanation you are now trying to walk that back and add context but that wasn’t there before.
Seriously, incels? I can't take you seriously if you use them as a frame of reference, sorry.You are validating every stereotype sexist men have about women by posting things like this. Every hateful incel that is convinced women want nothing but “alphas” and monkey branch off to the next best thing at the drop of a dime. I don’t see how that helps women at all.
Right... the only true and “good” feminist is one who hates and rejects men - of course unless they are handsome and rich. Makes soo much senseAnd I say this is bullshit.
Men who behave "horribly" are judged as individuals, not for their gender. People can't even discuss systemic oppression and male violence without idiots claiming "not all meen!". It's women who are othered because historically that's always been the case. The female perspective has always been considered not worthwhile so when a woman speaks up about male violence or misogyny, it's dismissed because women were always labelled irrational or too emotional, so everything that comes out of our mouth is automatically invalidated...until men, or medias run by men co-sign it (even my male friends don't believe me when I tell them street harassement or workplace harassement happens to women very often). Only then, is it taken seriously. Like it did for the metoo movement. Women always spoke up it wasn't taken seriosuly until mass media ran by men publicized the stories. Women weren't even treated or seen as people for a long time, they were just men's property.
What were you saying in the other thread?? Oh yeah, "mICro vS MacRO" LOL.
Again, lame. Me being in college (even if I was that's none of your business) has absolutely nothing to do with this topic.
Learn how to read.
I posted I wouldn't date an ugly man and you came to the conclusion I only care about looks. If I make a thread about cats does that mean that's all I care about in life??? That's dumb.
You think that what people post here is all there is to them because you basically live on this forum (you have 11000 posts). Like I said, you need to go out more.
And I don't owe anyone an explanation for my individual choices, especially not complete strangers. I'm not in court.
Seriously, incels? I can't take you seriously if you use them as a frame of reference, sorry.
You need to ask yourself why you put so much wieght onto what these misogynist degenerates are thinking. I certainly don't care what incels think. You can date as many ugly and broke men as you want: it's not gonna improve the female condition. They hate you because you're a woman, not because you did xyz.
It's pretty clear from your responses that you have internalized these stereotypes you talk about; otherwise you would totally reject them instead of telling women the problem is with what they post. You're judging other women based on a value system that was set up by your oppressors, so what does that mke you?
I'm not living my life based on what people who hate me for being a woman think of me. I have other things to worry about.
Again with trying to put words in my mouth and imagining things I didn't say. You're literally arguing with yourself at this point.Right... the only true and “good” feminist is one who hates and rejects men - of course unless they are handsome and rich. Makes soo much sense
Words like "ugly" and/or "broke" are descriptive. And someone's physical appearance is the first thing we see about them, so please don't pretend not to judge people by their looks, because that's not true.newsflash: instead of rejecting the “judgements of your oppresser” YOU are in fact internalizing them to the extent that you are using them yourself as a weapon. Don’t fool yourself into believing your above them, you are even more beholden to them and it’s sad cuz you don’t even realize it.
No Einstein. You sound like an incel pretending to be a feminist. That’s just the facts. Sorry if they are inconvenient. I skipped right over literally everything else you said because it isn’t worth my time.Again with trying to put words in my mouth and imagining things I didn't say. You're literally arguing with yourself at this point.
And you do realize that some people are just average in every department? Whether it's looks or money; Or are you just too slow to comprehend that? Are you only capale of thinking in binary, because nuance is too far beyond your mental capacity, which is why you think "not broke" automatically means rich.
It's more like you're a disingenous overreacting idiot who's projecting your own insecurities.
here is what you said "boohoo I'm more than a breast size and a vagina!!". If men treat you as such then take up your issue with THEM. DON'T FUCKING PUSH IT ON ME.
Words like "ugly" and/or "broke" are descriptive. And someone's physical appearance is the first thing we see about them, so please don't pretend not to judge people by their looks, because that's not true.
What about those Adam Sandler movies depicting a schlubby dude who gets the hot girl, isn't it also detrimental to women? It makes men think they're entitled to have everything they want (which is the message they've been given since day one). Which in turn, makes them get angry when it doesn't happen in real. Yet movies like this create this mass delusion. And that's why we have incels (the incels you love so much), bc they can't live up to that fantasy so they end up taking their anger onto ALL women.
Playing different sections of the oppressed class against one another is what they do to ensure their supremacy. Look at you, you've adopted this sexist narrative of fucking incels. You're doing their work for them. It might make the oppressor reward you for being a good attack dog who barks when he says "bark", but it's not gonna liberate you; you're still their subordinate and they don't respect you more.
They might give you a little pat on the head though.
Really weird... because you're the one mentionning incel ideology to try and prove your point #justsaying. People always tell on themselves.No Einstein. You sound like an incel pretending to be a feminist. That’s just the facts. Sorry if they are inconvenient. I skipped right over literally everything else you said because it isn’t worth my time.