The subsequent surgery was her awake watching herself being cut open to deliver a baby get body was more than capable of having done naturally only to fit this OB's time schedule. After the birth, my friend went into shock and started internally clotting to which the OB didn't notice and she almost died before receiving a blood transfusion.
How horrible. I really feel sorry for your friend!
I had an OB opt for their dinner and not show up until the last minute and just cut the cord and signed papers (after the nurse delivered the baby). My last two births were with midwives but in different provinces. One province lets you shut out the nurses and have your baby with you fam, midwife etc. The other province made it law to have a midwife and a nurse present.
So I went to the hospital late very late, on purpose. I walked in and saw an acquaintance hooked up to the machine to induce her birth. She literally looked like a lamb being led to slaughter. They made her walk around the hall and all I could see from her eyes were the whites. I dunno perhaps seeing that was a shock to my system and I sensed if they induced my birth it could easily get out of the hands of my midwife who was next to me.
The OB came in to see me that should not have happened and she was a bit aggressive in her address, guess she did not like the midwife choice. The midwife said quietly "you do not have to listen to this we can have the baby in your home." Off I went and had a home birth. It was my favorite and least stressed birth with wonderful memories Thank God.
There are some good OBs with a holistic approach but we just have to look for them because they are the few and far between. It appears that the schools of medicine have to change their approach to birth. We also have to have the information about what could go wrong in these situations so that we make informed choices as well. However, once you are under their 'care' you are at their mercy. Women with low risk births should think twice about using the system except with a midwife.